Uncertainty over compatibility in a relationship juts like tree roots along an unkempt path. In our case, they tripped us during every tryst. Yet in that moment, the warmth of his hand felt soothing — comfortable. “This is the best part of this evening,” he said, as I gazed into his deep blue eyes, which … Continue reading Compatibility in a Relationship: What Background Mismatches Cost and How to Decide If It’s Worth It